It is better to remain single than to marry than to marry the wrong person!
Marrying the wrong person is like living in hell on earth and divorce
isn't an option!
Don't ever think you can marry somebody and change the fellow, if the
person doesn't change before you get married it is a settled case!
If you marry just because a guy is rich, tall and handsome but he not
a true child of God, you are heading for trouble! Goliath was Tall,
king saul was lanky but he lost his crown. Don't marry a fool.
If a guy is following you to church just to get you , you will know!
some guys are in church just to deceive you but the bible says by
their fruits you'll know them. Bible didn't say by their words you'll
know them , some guys have sweet mouth! Don't marry a sweet talking
demon, watch their fruits!
If you marry someone who doesn't believe in holiness, you are the one
who dug your own grave yourself cos you'll only be wife NO 1, many
others are likely follow!
Romans 8:31: The reason RCCG weds with the bible instead of a ring is
because the bible can never change, the word of God stands forever but
a ring can be removed at anytime!
Those who will reach the top must be peculiar! There is always room at
the top but only few will get there.
Don't marry a man who has no job! Before God gave Adam a wife, he gave
him a job! If he says he is a contractor, ask him for evidence of his
previous contracts because you might just be the contract he is on
about!
Marriage Advice For The Gents
Don't marry a Delilah! Don't marry for beauty . Proverbs 31:30 says
beauty is vain.
Don't ever marry outside the church and you have no reason to marry
outside RCCG. The reason is that If you are both from the same church
even when trouble comes it is easier for the pastors to handle it!
Don't marry a girl simply because she can sing! In the choir there are
some people that can sing but they are falling angels! Marry a prayer
warrior! If a girl cannot pray for 1 hour, don't marry her.
Don't marry a girl who is lazy! Don't marry a girl who cannot cook,
she needs to know how to do cores and cook because you cannot afford
to be eating out all the time.
Don't marry a girl who is worldly! If you do, you have carried what
you'll worship for the rest of your life!
Advice On Music
Music is not music unless it is organised. It must have rhyme, rhythm
and repetition.
While the right kind of music keeps the devil away, the wrong music
can invite demons.
The number one reason why God chose David to be king was because he
was a musician singing the right songs!
It is possible to have wonderful music, music that will refresh you
and bring God down without making noise. When the bible talks about
making a joyful noise to the Lord, it was talking about shouts of
Halleluyah.
In your gatherings, check the lyrics, rhyme and rhythms of your songs
you use in worshipping God. As much as youths might not want to sing
hymns all day, make sure the songs you sing are really glorifying God
not just noise.
Advice On Evangelism
As youths, take evangelism seriously! Use your youthful strength for
God and be proud to proclaim the gospel of Jesus Christ. Ecclesiastes
12:1
It takes only a few people to cause a riot the universities, why can't
a few unstoppable youths get up and start a riot to the kingdom of
darkness?
RCCG is in many nations all over the world today because your parents
worked hard in their youths. When the founder, Pa Akindayomi, died,
RCCG was only in Nigeria and I was only 38 when the church was handed
over to me.
Other youths and I took evangelism seriously! We worked hard to bring
the church to where it is now, today RCCG is in many nations of the
world! IT IS YOUR TURN to take the church forward.
Joshua 1:1-9, Deuteronomy 34:9: We are to build on the foundation that
has been laid for us by our fathers.
The elders are the foundation, the youths are the flowers! It's a
dangerous thing to be a flower, people pluck flowers but hardly do
people touch the roots!If you stay connected to your roots, you'll not
dry up.
The one who is UNSTOPPABLE is the one who wouldn't allow sin to come
in because our God is a Holy God!
If you will worship God with good music not just noise , if you'll
witness without compromising, if you will be different and ready to
stand out for Christ, if you are willing to pray with ceasing then
you'll be UNSTOPPABLE.